10 Guides How to Deal with Bad Days (moods) in Your Life - 10 Tips Ketika Menghadapi Hari Buruk

Hello!

Aku percaya kalau setiap orang pasti pernah mengalami yang namanya hari buruk/bad day,
Penyebabnya bisa beragam, entah karena putus cinta., putus kerja., kecewa karena teman, keluarga, (merasa) diasingkan, (merasa) disepelekan, dan masih banyak lain. You can make it a very long list I guess :D


Ketika kita mengalami kejadian-kejadian yang tidak mengenakkan/menyenangkan, Perasaan kita pun pasti akan menjadi sedih, kecewa, marah, dll sebagai reaksinya.
Reaksi-reaksi tersebut merupakan hal yang wajar, namun akan menjadi tidak wajar apabila kita terus-menerus berkutat dengan perasaan tersebut. :(


Karena itu sebagai seorang yang smart secara emosional, kita harus mulai belajar bagaimana menangani emosi-emosi negatif tersebut. Bila tidak, hal ini hanya akan merugikan diri kita sendiri, kita bisa menjadi sakit dan tidak bersemangat contohnya.


Nah, Cara terbaik untuk menghilangkan emosi negatif tersebut sebenarnya tidaklah terlalu susah -tergantung niat kita juga sih ya hehehe. Salah satunya adalah dengan kita mengganti emosi negatif tersebut dengan emosi yang positif.

So Let's learn today how to manage our negative emotions in a smart way!
It's gonna be a simple guide and It's all based on my personal experience, So hope you enjoy reading! :)

5 things I learn the Most in 2014 So Far

It's almost a half year of 2014 and It's time to look at our resolutions again if we're making enough progress through out this half year. -yey :D

For me 2014 is quite challenging so far, 
My main goal for this year actually to be a better person and learn everyday. So I try my best everyday to be a better me and constantly looking at my resolutions to keep me in line and stay focus.

Today I'm going to write down what I've been learning the most in this 2014's half year. 
I make it as lists so I can get you at the point.

Here we go, this is 5 things I learn the most: D

1. You have to know your strengths and weaknesses
Study them regularly so you can minimize your flaws and focus only on developing your strength. 
I learn that focus on your strength makes you more confident and be thankful for who you are. 
It will avoid you also to be someone you aren't and push you being someone you've created to be.

5 Reasons why I love Changi Airport

Singapore Changi Airport is simply an extraordinary Airport! I love how this airport is more than just an airport. It's clean (super clean in fact), spacious, beautiful in Its architecture and Interior design, very organized, also It has many places to eat and to shop.

For the 4th visit to Singapore, Changi has always been amazed me. 
Ok, so It's not going to be a complete guide for you about Changi Airport, this writing is just about my adoration and my excitement when I was visiting Changi Airport. So let's check it out why I love it, maybe you have the same reasons as I do ;)

Simple Smokey Eyes for Monolids

Some of you who has monolid eyes might think that smokey eyes aren't for you. Oh nothing at all.. In fact you can stand out also with this look just as double lid people do. 

Today I will share to you how to create a simple smokey eyes look for monolid eyes. Asians usually have monolid eyes, just like mine. 
In the right way, monolid eyes could be as gorgeous as double lid eyes. It just needs unlimited creativity and sometimes a little daring to block the eyes with monochromatic color.

When I did this, I was in rush to go to some night event after doing my work. So I need to do a quick make up that look effortless yet pretty and gorgeous also. 

my DEAR Shihtzu

I love my best friend, she's my best home-partner, She's never complaining about everything, always entertaining, funny, cute, and never get angry... Guys, let me introduce my best friend... UNYIL, my shihtzu dog!

Her name is Unyil, yeah some of u might ask about her 'funny' and ridiculous name. Actually her name is Brietling Navitimer von Heaven at her certificate when I first adopted her. Because It was difficult to pronounce, my family decided to give her nick name so we can call her easily. 
Mesmerized by her cute and innocent appearance suddenly one name popped up on our mind when we try to call her, That name was Unyil, which means cute, little in Indonesian.

FAITH HOPE LOVE

Apa sih kebutuhan primer manusia untuk hidup? Kalau kita sempat mengecap bangku sekolah, kebutuhan primer manusia dikatakan mencakup sandang, pangan, papan. Sandang yang berarti pakaian, pangan yaitu makanan, dan papan atau rumah. 

Memang benar kita memerlukan 3 hal primer di atas untuk bertahan hidup, namun jangan lupa bahwa manusia mempunyai dimensi lain selain dimensi fisik. Dimensi tersebut adalah dimensi rohani (roh, batin, mental)
Dalam dimensi ini, manusia mempunyai kebutuhan yang sama pentingnya dengan kebutuhan fisik. 

For me those needs define in three words: FAITH HOPE LOVE


FAITH
Manusia pada hakikatnya akan selalu mencari arti kehidupan. Pernakah kita mempertanyakan pertanyaan seperti: dari mana dunia berasal, bagaimana asal mula kehidupan, mengapa aku ada di dalam dunia ini, dan sebagainya? Wajar-wajar saja karena jati diri kita adalah TRUTH SEEKER (pencari kebenaran) yang akan selalu mencari tahu kebenaran yang sejati di dalam hidup. 
Tidaklah heran ada begitu banyak agama di muka bumi ini sebagai usaha manusia untuk mencari kebenaran itu. 
That's why as a spiritual human being, we have to have FAITH. Faith atau iman ini tidak selalu tentang agama, but mostly memang berhubungan dengan Tuhan sebagai Sang Kebenaran itu sendiri. 
Having FAITH in our lives give a big impacts, It gives a meaning in life.

By having faith, we know that LIFE has a divine purpose, we are created not by accident but there's a plans why we're here. 
We know that LIFE has a meaning and greater purpose than we could ever imagine.

Without Faith, we simply live out of purpose, and depend only by our circumstances. So if we're failed at something or plans don't come in our way we're just losing a meaning in life.
So have Faith!

TALENTS VS CHARACTER

Setiap orang pasti punya mimpi. Setiap orang pasti ingin meraih kesuksesan dalam kehidupan mereka. Because those things give a meaning in life indeed.

Banyak orang beranggapan kalau orang-orang yang bakal sukses adalah orang-orang yang punya talenta yang luar biasa. As I'm growing up, I realize that talents aren't enough to achieve your dream. That statement doesn't mean to discourage anyone.. but in order to achieve dreams there's a lot of efforts, and things we have to accomplish.. That's more than 'just' a talent!!

For me- who's on my way to achieve my dreams- pursuing dreams needs hard-working dan juga ketekunan. Karena pasti ada waktu-waktu ketika kita merasa stuck, dan jenuh dengan apa yang kita kerjakan, sehingga kita butuh mendisiplinkan diri untuk tetap tekun melakukan what we need to do. I believe if we persevere, it just a matter of time untuk kita bisa meraih mimpi-mimpi kita.

Tidak ada sukses yang instan, tapi menurutku inilah yang bikin kita menghargai kesuksesan kita nantinya.